Love is not something that you do it is something that you become...Become Love

If you make your emotions sweet love becomes you!

Love has nothing to do with some

Through your entire self into something and something wonderful will blossom, the constant negotiation with yourself is some kind of transaction...through yourself into something that is important to you!  Include it as a part of yourself

Human being is longing to be something more than what they are now
Physically expression == Sexuality
Mental expression == Greed, shopping, conquest
Money wealth something that is not you you want to make it a part of yourself
Emotionally == Making someone who is not a part of you as a part of you

this will not work for always...

If you do this consciously include everything as yourself  this is Yoga==means union == love affair successful== Inclusiveness

You are now thinking of love only because you appreciate something that is what you desire and want to include this as a part of yourself....

Throw yourself into something with all you got! there is no best thing, if you put yourself into what you do its a great thing.  Best involves other people, that is a comparison, the moment you try and involve other people you are doing the best thing that is self defeating focus on doing a great thing

What happens within you must happen by Choice, love happens within you!
Love is a sweetness of your emotion triggered by something....

Love is something that you become

if you make body pleasant it becomes pleasure
if you make your mind pleasant it becomes joy
if you make you emotions pleasant this is love!
Life energy becomes pleasant call this bliss

Surrounding become pleasant we call this success
success with someone, pleasantness in the atmosphere = that needs management =
you cannot manage the outside but in yourself you can manage your emotions

Love is not an action, it is something that you must become!

How important is Marriage and How do i know if this is the right one?

Companionship in life, how strong are the needs to get married
Body has a very strong sense of memory, the physical body remembers everything
Physical intimacy, deep sense of memory, too many memory leads to a certain level of confusion and no real joy, they are too loose with physical body, confusing body memory

DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING WITH ABSOLUTE INVOLVEMENT
if you are sweeping the floor with total involvement you will become enlightened
but if you sweep the floor you are longing to do something else

How not to make misery out of life, live life joyfully...whatever you do is the right thing, its just the way you do it...
happiness is the minimum thing to do in life then go beyond

MARRIAGE FOR ME
marriage should only be about the companionship tha ti want to be ablet to go thru my lfe in a joyful way wiht sometone else and share common interest, physical attraction, laughter, commitment, trust, caring, intelligent conversations, a certain spark and attraction, sexual intimacy, share in adventure an feel like a deep sharing and friendship and that joint goal of living in service to humanity and growth of our soul and possibly have one child.  It is not about getting but letting it flow and happen.  for me it requires a cerating amohnt of trust becuase since i have been a little detached nothing has happened maybe i should start dating for fun and see what happens.  but fo rme i have so clinged to the concpet of getting something that i feel is missing in mysel fthru marriage first Sabeer the money and fame now with A the sprituality and living an awakend life.  All this tha ti seek it needs to experss thru me can i commit to being 100% of who i wish to see in other the qualities that I wish to see, the servie to humanity and 100% living my true life and self!

And that is why i went to Rishikesh and to the 100s of yoga retreats that i go to, now to chase down soemtone who will maek my lief beaustiful or who will heop me ceombe mfamous and beome my ture self which i call a Yogi...that is who i am at the core..the Guru...the Guru within, my true Guru is what lies within me!

No one is saying that if i becoem true to myesle i will nto get married in fac tthat is the righ tway to get married an dinfd a true equal otherswise i will alsowy be less than and alway be trying to seek seomthign from teh other person and that will create inner conflity and a feeling fo despearteness.  Andn dis a great expamoley i think that waht we have a e very beautiful the experind ant i felt druiing teacher trining but to keep on attaching ot that is in the past stp looking in the rear view mirror the past is just past.  Make each moment, This Moment beautiful.

The motorcycle or any activity that requires you to been in life or death situation is what the true awakeing experience is like -- the zone when you are so deep in your concentration that nothing else matters.  All of you is present at its best...that is the zone!

what do you do in a day that requires your absolute attention and focus, not the mind wandering...?

Commitemnt to self in an unwaverying way is the only way to get anywhere.  I keep seeing how my life has not changed much in the physical realm and i get frustrated and unhappy but in the inner level i feel very calm and happy!  That is beautiful stay with the self, no need to keep on seeing.

Someday is Now...

So I have been struggling with the fact that everyone is getting married and although I say i am very happy for them and i am, i am also a little sad about the fact that - I am Sad also....

I love my life and am internally Grateful for everything...i just feel like although i have changed a lot - i

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Yoga Teacher Training
Feeling like I am on the right path
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Falling in Love

Yes i did i fell in love with someone very special and it feels great but the outcome is the same, i wonder if its like the body weight thing where i expect to gain it back.  I am definitely comfortable seeing myself a certain way.  I am comfortable being single and yes there is some degree of fear but more than that its just that i feel like its the same pattern.  So it seems i am very comfortable liking someonw and then i feel like it doesnt seem to work out and yes that is progbaly my need to cling to someone and yes it has everyhing to do with me.  my life is a huge gift and i now have a geat way to make money and jsut be me and i honow have a longing to be with my life partner my pefect soul mate who wants to join me on my journey to livng a comoplet and happy sourlful life of serive proidce succes and everhitng i just with for this to happen now.  i am ready and availabe but the thingk is i also now have a guy howi felt like i really love and kepe hopong he will coem around and the reality is that i dont knwo ehoch oabout this expiernc ethat i think i can only ahve with hem the feelign of love and attraction and chemisty and a soecail connection i feel i want ot    have now.  i am now open and receptivy to lve to cme in tomy life in eveyr way.  

Fear

Fear is only about that which does not exist....its a horror movie created by you.  Most of the time it happen only in our mind...

Kriya Yoga

Yogi and mystic, Sadhguru, looks at what kriya yoga means, and what it takes to walk this path and explore the very mechanics of the life process.

Sadhguru: Fundamentally, kriya means internal action. When you do inner action, it does not involve the body and the mind because both the body and the mind are still external to you. When you have a certain mastery to do action with your energy, then it is a kriya.

If you do external activity we call it karma. If you do internal activity we call it kriya. In a way, both are certain kind of karmas or both are certain kind of kriyas. But traditionally, or in the general sense of the term it is understood like this: karmas are those which bind you, kriyas are those which release you.

Once we start working with the energy in a certain way, it has a different kind of depth to life

Whatever we do with your body, your attitudes and your thought, for example today your thoughts may go in one direction. Tomorrow if another person comes and influences you, they will go another way. Similarly, whatever we do with your body, your body is well today so it likes asanas. Tomorrow morning if your body is stiff, you will hate asanas. Youremotions are not at all reliable. At any moment they can shift from this to that. But your energies are different. Once we start working with the energy in a certain way, it has a different kind of depth to life. Suddenly, there is a different dimension to every aspect of your life because your energies have been touched and activated in a completely different way.

A powerful way

Kriya yoga is a very powerful way to walk the spiritual path, but at the same time it is a very demanding way. What it demands out of a person is so tremendous. For a modern educated person today, kriya yoga would be inhuman because it needs that kind of discipline and a certain exactness about everything. Most people don’t have the body, the mind or the stability of emotion for the kriya yoga path anymore because right from childhood, people are in too much comfort. Comfort does not mean physical comfort. Sitting in a comfortable chair is not an obstruction. But your whole being is seeking comfort always, that is a great obstruction. If you are sitting on something which is comfortable, enjoy it – there is no problem about it. But if you are constantly seeking comfort, then that kind of mind and emotion is unsuitable for the path of kriya yoga. Kriya yoga cannot be done with people who are loose, people who talk “freedom” everywhere, “Am I not free to do this, am I not free to do that, can’t I eat this, can’t I sleep there?”

If we want the kriya to be imprinted into your system in a certain way, then it needs discipline and dedication

If you take someone into the path of kriya, if I tell you sleep with your legs up and head down, that is how you should sleep without asking questions because all of it can never be explained. You may understand as you go, but it can never be explained. And if it has to be explained, the essence of the kriya will be lost. If people start asking stupid logical questions for everything, kriyas cannot be imparted.

If we want to teach you kriyas just as a physical practice, I can write a book about it, and you can read and learn it. But if you want the kriya to be a live process, if we want the kriya to be imprinted into your system in a certain way, then it needs discipline and dedication. It needs trust to open up your energies to the other person so that you become absolutely vulnerable. He may do anything with you, and initially you will start wondering what the hell he is doing with you because the initial stages of kriyas can be such that you don’t know whether you are getting enlightened or you are going mad. You must have enough trust to sustain through those periods. Otherwise kriya will be difficult.

So generally on the path of kriya, most Gurus make the disciples wait. You come and you want to learn kriya yoga. “Okay, sweep the floor.” “No, I want to learn kriya yoga.” “That is why I said, sweep the floor.” You swept the floor for one year and said, “I did one year of sweeping.” “Oh, you are done with one year of sweeping the floor? Wash the dishes.” Just make him wait, wait, and wait. Use him, misuse him, abuse him, and still his trust does not shake, “Oh, there must be some reason.” When he comes to this, then he can be initiated into kriyas. Otherwise, once you power him in a particular way that his system is vibrant beyond normal standards, if his attitudes and emotions are not proper, he will cause immense damage to himself.

But in today’s world, to get that kind of time with people to make them wait and go through all this and when they come to that kind of trust, then imprinting this is a little remote. It is not impossible, but it is a little remote in the modern world.

The mechanics of life

Kriya yoga is important only if you want to do things beyond realization. If your interest is only to somehow escape this prison and get away, you just want enlightenment or mukti, then you don’t really have to walk the kriya yoga path because kriyas are so elaborate and involve so much discipline and focus. If you just want to be liberated, then kriyas can be used in a small way, it need not be too intense. Kriya as a whole path is not necessary because it needs too much application.

With the path of kriya you are not only seeking realization, you also want to know the mechanics of life-making

If you follow the path of kriya very intensely, without guidance it may take a few lifetimes to mature. If there is someone alive who can do things with you, then it can happen in this life. Otherwise kriya is a little roundabout way. With the path of kriya you are not only seeking realization, you also want to know the mechanics of life-making. You want to know the engineering of how life is built – what to do about it. That is why it is a much longer process.

People who have come up on kriya have a completely different kind of presence about them because of the mastery over their energies. They can dismantle life and put it back together. But if you are just pursuing other ways, like gnana for example, you are razor-sharp, you can do many things with your mind but still there is nothing much you can do with your energy. If you are on bhakti, there is nothing you can do and you don’t care, you only want to dissolve. If you are on the path of karma yoga, you do many things in the world, but you can do nothing with yourself. But kriya yogis can do whatever they wish with themselves in terms of energy and they can do a lot with the world also.

Editor’s Note: Sadhguru has designed Isha Kriya, a guided meditation that helps bring peace, health and wellbeing. Daily practice of this simple yet effective 12-minute process can transform one’s life.

Life as it is Now

This moment I Aparna Sain love you!

This love is so beautiful that its huge and i feel so blessed to be alive!  I feel like i am now living in totoal llove and completelness.  i feel like m love is here and actuallyt he beauty is that i didn thave to i am wiht soemone who feels like he is the one for me and he feels like my other half someone who ifeel sso right adn we bleong togther always!